If another person is recognised as the ‘legal’ mother or father of the child this means that the biological or former mother or father of the child does not have legal responsibility for the child any more.
Here are some examples of situations in which a biological parent may not be the ‘legal’ parent of the child:
- After an adoption order is made
- After a surrogacy order is made
- If a married woman is inseminated artificially or conceives a child by in vitro fertilisation after 31st July 1991 the father will be her husband, unless he did not consent to the treatment.
- If a man was a sperm donor to a woman married to another man who consented to the insemination, and the child is born in England or Wales after 3rd April 1988 and insemination took place before 1st August 1991, the father will be the woman’s husband.
Adoption
When a child is adopted, the legal responsibility of the biological parents is transferred to the adoptive parents. Children can only be adopted if they are under 18 years old and have never been married, and the biological parents must consent to the adoption of their child. However, if the biological parents are seen to be unreasonably withholding consent, the requirement for their consent can be waived. Since April 2007 adoption and fostering agencies have been required to consider gay and lesbian couples as prospective adoptive parents.

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Once a surrogate mother has given birth to a child, the court can make a parental order that transfers the legal responsibility to the intended parents. Although there have been over 700 surrogacy cases in the UK since 1985, not all have worked out according to plan. Although surrogacy is legal in the UK, it is illegal to ‘pay’ a surrogate mother anything other than ‘reasonable expenses’ for the surrogacy.
Before the child is born, the intended parents have very few rights. Once the baby is born, the intended father’s name can go on the birth certificate (so giving the surrogate mother and the intended father equal legal rights over the child.) Six weeks after the birth, the intended parents are entitled to ask for a parental order that transfers the rights from the surrogate mother to them.
At the time of writing, the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Bill is set to introduce new provisions in relation to parenting orders. At the moment, only heterosexual married couples are entitled to apply for these orders. The new law will allow same sex civil-partnership couples, unmarried couples and same sex couples not in a civil partnership the right to apply to the court for this type of order, although they must be in a long-term relationship.
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Local Authorities & Court Orders
If a child is deemed to be at risk the local authority will investigate further and may take the child or children into care. In the first instance the local authority will try to resolve the issues without going to court but if after an attempt at resolution has failed, and it is considered that the child/children is still at risk it may apply to court to obtain a court order. The court must then decide whether or not a child is at risk. If so it may make a care or supervision order; if not it may make a residence order, a contact order, a specific issue order or a prohibited steps order.
Foster parents only have temporary rights over fostered children and do not have legal rights over them unless or until they decide to adopt them.
Approx 2.5 yrs ago
The past 4 years I have been in a relationship and he has took my son on like his own ( but the mother doesn’t like it because I have a support network ) I will openly admit I have been soft with my son when he was younger to have a quiet life but now he’s a teenager it’s bit me right on the rear end but we are doing everything possible to make sure he stays on the right track. Iv had to stop contact with my son and his nana because he is a different child after he’s been to her house ( attitude, rude ) he thinks the sun shines out of his arse because she buys him and when she doesn’t get her own way the dummy is spat out and she will bring other family members into it. It’s a joke..
Do I let my son go ( it won’t last because she will get bored once the spark has gone )
He saw her for 4 days just after her 2nd birthday and has not visited her since nor has he paid a single penny towards her upbringing, education or health costs. She is now 10.5 years old. Hasn't seen her father since she was 2 or even spoken to him over the phone since then. He has never bought so much as a birthday or christmas card for her (ever, even when we were together).
The only contact we get is a facebook message once or maybe twice per year simply asking how she is, then he disappears again.
If god forbid somethings happens to me, I don't want her being sent back to live with a man she doesn't know and who obviously doesn't care about her very much.
Is it possible to legally have his guardianship removed or his parental rights revoked?
Also, as the "child" is technically an adult, is it possible to pay the 19 year old the money, rather than the mother/father?
I am asking on behalf of a friend.
Regards
Caroline
Our children are both autistic so routine and consistency are very important.
He has decided that he wants to take the youngest
Now we are in court!
He has emotional tortured me since I left him just over a year ago taking everything!
Now we're in court!
Can a father just decide he wants s time be a father and take from a mother!!!
He a high status
Me in benefits
What can I do
Back in court in 12 weeks 24 days to submit my evidence!
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