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What if Your Child's Support Payments Stop?

By: Imogen Jones LLB (hons) - Updated: 19 May 2020 | comments*Discuss
 
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Child Support Payments are regulated by the Child Support Agency (CSA); payments are for the support of the child from the non-resident parent to the parent with primary residency. The money is not the same as Child Benefit. Child Benefit is a set amount, state-given sum of money that is higher for the first child than for each subsequent child. 

Payments for children can also be regulated by the court.

The amount of money for maintenance is based on the money earned after appropriate deductions are made, for example, if the non-resident parent has custody of the children for a period of time, such as overnight contact. It is important to remember that the payment is a formal arrangement and can be enforced by a number of powers that the CSA has at their disposal including Bailiffs.

Non-formal arrangements are ones that are not regulated by the CSA and are based entirely on trust between the two parties as to when payments are made. This is not to say that because you have not entered into a formal arrangement you are precluded from, at least, approaching the CSA to ask about more formal maintenance payments. Any agreement that you may have entered into, not to approach the CSA, is not valid legally.

Is it a legitimate stoppage or change in payment?

If the payments stop and they are regulated by the CSA you have to consider whether the payments have ceased legitimately. There may be a very good reason as to why they have stopped and if you need to take action as a result, then you need to explore all the reasonable options. Unless you have an arrangement that is to the contrary, the CSA works along the following basic lines:

Is the child 16 and no longer in full time education? - if yes, then the payments have been correctly stopped. Payments will automatically stop a month after a child who is in full time education turns 19. This is because the maintenance payments are paid a month in arrears, so the support continues for the full year that the child is 18.

Has there been a change in circumstances that necessitated an alteration to the amount that is being paid in maintenance? - the non-resident parent informing the CSA that their financial situation has changed normally instigates alterations in payment. For example, stopping or starting work or changes in employment status to self employed, alternatively changes in benefits either starting or stopping benefits.  The resident parent can also tell the CSA if any of these changes occur. There are a number of alterations that may force the CSA to undertake a reassessment that may change the amount that is paid in maintenance.

It would be unrealistic to expect that maintenance remain static and as a result changes in amounts that are paid should be expected. If you suspect, however, that it is not a legitimate change there are ways to address this.

What if you suspect the change is not legitimate?

Maintenance can be a big source of contention between two parties and can lead to a breakdown in communication, which if your children are subject to shared access orders and custody, can affect the children and the relationship each parent has with each other and their children. This is not to say that if you genuinely suspect that there is something irregular about the payments that you should not investigate, but be careful that this does not impact your children unnecessarily.

The easiest way to raise your concerns, and your first port of call, is to speak to the CSA directly should you suspect anything. If you have any evidence, offer to send it to them and report the facts. Even if you do not have any direct evidence, investigations can be undertaken if the CSA feel they are able to conduct an investigation.

Tread Carefully

CSA payments can become a big problem between parties if one feels that the other is not contributing to shared financial responsibility of your children. It is important that the children do not suffer emotionally as a result. It is an obvious but an important point to make, that if payments stop that does not mean that contact can stop. Contact has often been court ordered and being in breach of a court order can have serious consequences. If you have concerns about maintenance payments, raise them with the CSA or Court as applicable and pursue the matter through official channels seeking professional advice where appropriate.

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My son has turned 18 and i am still paying csa But is still in college. Does payments stop at 18 or when he finishes his college. Were inU.K
Davey - 15-May-20 @ 10:22 AM
My husbands son turns 19 at the end of September 2020, can he stop paying csa? He has no contact with him, so he doesnt know if his son is going to university or not but he has continued in education upto this point according to CSA.
Loz1 - 10-May-20 @ 10:40 AM
I have a 17year old step daughter who has dropped out if 6th form college and working 5days a week. She has agreed with her mum to pay her mother board. Should maintenance payments now stop to her mother? She is no longer in education and paying her mother therefore it cannot be right for her dad to also pay her mother? Can anyone help?
Di - 17-Apr-20 @ 11:04 AM
Hi, I have a 17 year old who was in College but has quit and is now starting an apprenticeship 4 days a week.1 day a week she is in college (around 6 hours). This is a paid apprenticeship. Should I expect child maintenance payments to stop immediately or in September 2020? CSA worked out the amount that should be paid but the transfer of money is directly between my ex and myself. I just wanted to know the facts about when payments would stop so it causes no undue stress. Many thanks
Salli - 11-Mar-20 @ 1:40 PM
Hi My husbands son is 18 and has just quit college. Can he stop paying csa to his ex now? Do we have to contact csa to tell them or do we just cancel the direct debit? He is still willing to give the money to his son but we know for a fact when he pays it to his ex she spends it on herself. We are in the uk
Tayamyoko - 28-Feb-20 @ 1:33 PM
Hi My husband has an 18 year old daughter who finishes college in May, she is 19 in August. When do he payments he makes stop 1) when college finishes 2) when daughter is 19 Please help, can’t find a definite answer anywhere
Step Mummy - 20-Feb-20 @ 3:54 PM
I'm a single parent and was receiving CSA from my daughters mum which has now stopped. I've received a letter from CSA saying it has stopped but no reason why it has. could the payee be in prison for this to happen.
rob - 9-Dec-19 @ 7:01 PM
My son is 17 and a half he is 18 in May. He dropped his college course only to retake his english. He does 3/4 hours a week at college. Doesn't work. My question is if he was to return to his mothers to live. Will I be expected to pay child support to his mother
Maxie - 19-Sep-19 @ 3:19 PM
My daughter is 19 and a half and has finished a 3 year course at college and is going to university Sept 2019. Do I still have to pay maintenance now? Please help
Livo - 4-Sep-19 @ 6:14 PM
My 18 year old Daughter has just finished her A levels, she is planning to go to Uni in September,My ex husband has said my last maintenance payment will be 12th July is this correct ? Or should it be the end of August ? Her Birthday is December ? Thank you
Jue - 4-Jul-19 @ 9:10 PM
My son is 19 since the star of April and has been working between 40-48 hours and no longer enrolled in college but did start the college year. As he has left half way through the year how does this stand?
Solo1 - 21-May-19 @ 12:46 PM
My daughter turns 18 in June and I also have a 15 year old son. My ex has said that he will only pay half after her birthday month. Is that correct? It's simply half the normal payment or should it be recalculated?
Kj - 20-May-19 @ 7:15 PM
My son is 18 and just finisheed his A-Levels, hopefully going away to uni in Sept 2019. My ex-husband (who has no contact with his sons) has stopped paying child maintenance this month, saying he is no longer in education therefore he has no financial obligation. Is this correct as child tax credits finish in August, should he be paying upto August? Can I legally get an extention on child maintenance for my 18 year old?
Toria - 18-May-19 @ 5:17 PM
my son is 16 and in full time private college with a bursary for his education and also a bursary full time boarding (mon-fri), do i still pay the full child support or pay a bit less.
antelope - 16-Apr-19 @ 3:29 PM
I pay maintenance to my ex. My court order has a clause that says ‘for the avoidance of doubt the payments shall continue after remarriage’. The Act in Section 28(1) says maintenance terminates on remarriage. She has just remarried, what is the correct thing to do.
Robbie - 19-Mar-19 @ 9:37 PM
My daughter dropped out of college before her 17th Birthday and will be 18 in July....she goes to a local authority centre one day a week...which should be helping her find employment,placements for further advice on her education or a career which has resulted in her not getting anything from September to November last year....Then getting a placement in December to drop out of it in January....She still only goes to the centre once a week to this present time. I’ve been paying the csa and now cms since she was 6 years old and have never missed a single payment....I feel like I’m being duped out of continually paying whilst the girl is not trying and her mother is happy to collect the payments all the time all the time Child Benifit is handed out....so must the tax payer! Should I keep quite until she’s 18 or report what my gut feeling is telling me...that I and the tax payer is being conned by my ex ?
postie - 4-Feb-19 @ 9:17 PM
Hi, my son 17 going to sixth form he has3 A levels already which he past when leaving main stream School.My Question is how long do i have to pay maintenance for my child. Slighty confussed about this could someone advise. Many Thanks
Magic71 - 6-Jan-19 @ 2:53 AM
My husband's son is almost 19 with a child of his own who is 5months old he is working part time and also attending military college. Can someone please tell me when payments end?
Brock - 10-Nov-18 @ 5:22 PM
Steve - Your Question:
My daughter turned 18 last week and has just finished her A levels at a residential college. She also plans on going to uni in September. I’ve spoken to CMS and more confused now than before I rang them! I asked when I should stop paying my ex and was told it should stop 1 month after my daughter’s 18 birthday, so end of July. The reason given for this was that it can take up to a month for Child Benefit to notify them, unfortunately I can find no reference to this anywhere, everything I’ve read about it says my payments should stop on the 31st August? Would my last payment be at the end of July or the end of August?

Our Response:
As child maintenance stops at the same time child benefit does, please see link here. As a rule, it would be the end of August, the official end of the school year.
ChildSupportLaws - 29-Jun-18 @ 3:04 PM
My daughter turned 18 last week and has just finished her A levels at a residential college. She also plans on going to uni in September. I’ve spoken to CMS and more confused now than before I rang them! I asked when I should stop paying my ex and was told it should stop 1 month after my daughter’s 18 birthday, so end of July. The reason given for this was that it can take up to a month for Child Benefit to notify them,unfortunately I can find no reference to this anywhere, everything I’ve read about it says my payments should stop on the 31st August? Would my last payment be at the end of July or the end of August?
Steve - 29-Jun-18 @ 11:48 AM
Bee - Your Question:
My son turned 16 last month, now he's working 32 hours where I work doing an apprenticeship plus starting this September 1 day at catering college. Do I still have to pay maintenance, which was privately agreed. I'm in the uk.

Our Response:
If your son is earning, you would not have to pay child maintenance. As child maintenance falls in line with when child benefit payments end, you can see when you would stop via the link here .
ChildSupportLaws - 22-Jun-18 @ 3:45 PM
My son turned 16 last month, now he's working 32 hours where I work doing an apprenticeship plus starting this September 1 day at catering college. Do I still have to pay maintenance, which was privately agreed. I'm in the uk.
Bee - 22-Jun-18 @ 3:27 PM
Doting dad - Your Question:
I've paid over and above child maintenance for my daughter from she was born and is now 7 years old. I take her once a week as this is all her mum allows and spoil her loads. I've just started new job and have to do a lying week so her mum wants to change our family agreement and is going to tell csa I've cancelled our deal. This isn't true! What can I do?

Our Response:
In this case you may wish to contact CMS directly for advice regarding this matter.
ChildSupportLaws - 16-Apr-18 @ 1:41 PM
I've paid over and above child maintenance for my daughter from she was born and is now 7 years old. I take her once a week as this is all her mum allows and spoil her loads. I've just started new job and have to do a lying week so her mum wants to change our family agreement and is going to tell csa I've cancelled our deal. This isn't true! What can I do?
Doting dad - 14-Apr-18 @ 9:37 PM
Hi, I have two sons. One is almost 2 years and the other one is 6months.Their father is self employed as a builder but refuses to assist with anything, I'm not working because I'm a full time mom. Will he be able to pay child maintenance, even if he doesn't have a registered company?? Please help my children are dying of hunger ,and I can't even go look for work because I have to take care of them full time...
Miss Tee - 7-Nov-17 @ 11:01 AM
Becky0121 - Your Question:
My son is 18 in 4 months time and is at college 3 days a week but has recently got himself a part time job. Can anyone tell me when his csa payments off his dad are due to stop please? As I've struggled for years to get any sort of maintenance off him and he's only paying because he's forced to, so he'll be overjoyed at the thought of his payments coming to an end, I just want to be certain of the age before he thinks he can just stop paying me before he legally has to. Thank you.

Our Response:
A part-time job will not affect child maintenance payments. If your son is in full-time non-advanced education not higher than A-level equivalent, for at least 12 hours a week, then maintenance payments will continue until your son finishes the course. Also, to note; child maintenance payments finish at the same time as child benefit payments.
ChildSupportLaws - 3-Jul-17 @ 11:15 AM
My son is 18 in 4 months time and is at college 3 days a week but has recently got himself a part time job. Can anyone tell me when his csa payments off his dad are due to stop please?As I've struggled for years to get any sort of maintenance off him and he's only paying because he's forced to, so he'll be overjoyed at the thought of his payments coming to an end, I just want to be certain of the age before he thinks he can just stop paying me before he legally has to. Thank you.
Becky0121 - 2-Jul-17 @ 1:56 PM
My child has been placed in a special needs residential school due to severe complex needs. This is a 52 week placement and will be coming home (to mother) hopefully every 3rd weekend if progress is made. I still receive the child benefit and child tax credits. School is funded by local authority and placement is under the Education Act. Father is currently paying child maintenance but has recently contacted them asking to stop payments as child is living away from home. They have told him he still needs to pay maintenance, he hasappealled this decision. Is there any legislation covering this please? I'm worried my payments are going to stop?
sandy - 6-Jun-17 @ 6:17 PM
My son is at college 2days a week but has just got a job of 24hrs a week do my payments stop for maintenance
Trigger - 11-Jan-17 @ 6:45 PM
Hi my ex is due to retire next year. My daughters only 9. Will I still get Csa from him even no his retiering
Kez - 15-Mar-16 @ 2:40 PM
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