If you’re thinking of moving abroad with your child, there are many issues to consider. One of the main issues is that of abduction. If a parent shares parental responsibility, they are not allowed to take the child abroad for more than a month except for two situations: firstly, if the non resident parent consents or secondly if they have sought and obtained permission from the court.
Without this permission, taking a child abroad is abduction, even if the child is travelling with the ‘with care’ parent.
Going to Court
If there is a requirement to go to court to seek permission to go abroad, the court will consider a number of elements: the welfare and best interests of the child (in particular, if the parent wishes to take the child abroad for a better life); whether or not the proposed move is an attempt by the parent with care to stop the child seeing the non-resident parent; any harm that may come to the child; the capability of each parent; and the child’s wishes.
Jurisdiction of the CSA
The Child Support Agency only has jurisdiction in the UK, in other words England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland. However, it does not include the Channel Islands or the Isle of Man. If one or more parties live abroad, the CSA is unable to give a calculation of the amount of maintenance a non-resident parent should pay. If either parent or the child is not resident in the UK, the court does have the power to make and vary a maintenance order.
Non-Resident Parent Abroad
If the non-resident parent is working for the UK civil service abroad, is in the armed forces, for a UK governmental organisation or is working for a UK company abroad (and is paid from a UK payroll) then the CSA will still be able to collect money from them. In all other cases if the non-resident parent is abroad the parent with care can go to court in the UK to apply for child support.
There are procedures in place that are designed to assist parents with care in the UK collect money from non-resident parents abroad, in particular REMO (Reciprocal Enforcement of Maintenance Orders). REMO will assist UK residents by enforcing maintenance orders abroad to collect money from non-resident parents. It must be stressed however that the UK cannot compel or order foreign jurisdictions to act in a certain way or within a certain timescale. In addition, not all countries in the world participate in REMO.
If a parent with care who is in the UK wishes to apply for maintenance from a person who is not living in the UK, they do not need to employ the services of a solicitor. All that is required is that they attend their local magistrates court. If there is an existing order, they make an application to have that order enforced in the country where the non-resident parent lives and if there is no order they can ask child support authorities in the foreign country to make a maintenance order for them.
Non Resident Parent living in the UK
The REMO (Reciprocal Enforcement of Maintenance Orders) agreement with participating countries works both ways. This means that if a parent with care and the child both live abroad, they can apply for a foreign maintenance order which will be enforceable against the non-resident parent who is living in the UK.
@nadine - he sounds like an incredibly controlling man and if he is as bad as you say then he is likely to become even more controlling once you have your child. Firstly, you are not married, so you are currently entitled to do anything you you wish, which includes going home to have your child. In answer to your questions 1). You don't have to register your partner on the birth certificate, but he can apply for it through the courts and he is more than likely to be given it 2). Once you have your child, and he has PR, if you split up then can try to stop you going away through applying for a prohibitive steps court order (however, you will be allowed to take your child away for up to a month without consent). 3) If you split up you would have to get his consent, or consent through the courts to live abroad, if you move without consent you can be charged with abduction. It sounds to me like you would be better off having your baby at home in Greece while you actually have the freedom to make a decision about what is best for you and your child long term.
Alex - 14-Jan-15 @ 12:33 PM
I am 27 weeks pregnant and feel very distressed. We always had some issues with my fiancee- he was always pressing me to do more work, to do things the way he wanted and he criticised and insulted me many times. He always said that I did nothing, even though I managed his private practice as a doctor, without receiving any payment, taking care of two houses we moved each week for his work and looking after him and his mother. These issues did not improve as I thought during pregnancy but became worse, since for the first time I started to think of taking care of me. He pushed to do more work even when I did not feel well, did not let me buy the food I wanted and told me that I am a guest in his house. My parents came for Christmas and were very disappointmed by his behaviour and because they tried to reason with him he now refuses to let them stay during labour beacuse they are supposed to destroy his house. I need my mother close to me the days I give birth and his refusal has caused me frustration. I am thinking of going back to Greece where I can be in a more calming environment with my parents, although I would prefer to deliver here due to better medical care. If I register the child with him at birth can he stop me from going abroad? Do I have the right to refuse him to register the child? What can I do if he refuses to let me go? Eventually, if things won't work out and I manage to leave him, can he ever gain the custody from me?
I would like to thank you in advance for your help.
nadine - 13-Jan-15 @ 8:06 PM
My partner who lives in Australia currently pays child support to his ex as an agreed payment (not through the UK CSA)
Can the UK CSA order him to pay through them if my partners ex changes her mind and wants payments through them instead? She expects extra money on top of what she receives every month for clothing/shoes for the child as she claims the money my partner sends is what pays for the roof over HER child's head! She now says she wants the CSA involved but my partner would rather stick to the agreed payment, which increases every year.
Lee - 20-Nov-14 @ 10:57 AM
I mved to guernsey channel islands to stop the currupt CSA from stealing from me, great watching them go crazy looking for me and mocking my ex over the net
channel islands driving licence bank accounts job and even a deedpoll name change il never pay that currupt payment
AUDIE - 10-Oct-14 @ 6:17 PM
@shatner, why would you want to stop supporting your child?
jack - 21-Jul-14 @ 12:09 PM
My children will be moveing to the usa with there mother. If i stop paying maintenance money is there anyway she can make another claim from the usa?
shatner - 20-Jul-14 @ 7:22 AM
My husband died 2 and a half years ago after a few years of illness with cancer. I have three children (14, 12 & 10). My eldest son was 11 and 2 weeks into a new secondary school when my husband died. Things have been going downhill for him since. He has become a very angry, self destructive, disillusioned child. He has gone from being a top achiever at primary school to being excluded from school, ending up in a Pupil Referral Unit where there are so many other disfunctional children that the Unit has no control over them at all. An OFSTED report said there is no monitoring of children's attendance, no real work taught, no homework set, no behaviour control. My son has started mixing with very bad company, has been going missing, staying out late in the night or not coming home at all. He has recently been arrested for robbery and is basically on the road to delinquency and crime. Social workers and psychologists are involved and say this is a reaction to grief and bereavement but he is unwilling to engage with anyone and deal with his problems. He is becoming a law unto himself in the home, at school and on the streets. He is currently on bail until his trial at the end of August. His father's family live in Cape Town South Africa, my brother lives in Mafekeng South Africa and my sister in Botswana. My family are all British Citizens, my husband's family are South African citizens and my children have the right to both citizenships. My sister from Botswana, my brother and my in laws have offered for my son to come to Botswana or South Africa as we all beleive we need to get him out of this environment and away from the negative peer group he has got involved with. Most of them have been involved with the police, been in custody or waiting to go in. These young criminals (and I am not minimising theproblems that led to their delinquency but I can only try and save my son) have more sway over my son than I do or any other adult incluuding teachers, social workers, police, judges etc. My son has no grasp of reality or the consequences of his actions. Because all the people he is hanging around with are introuble with the law, he thinks its normal and not a big deal to get a criminal record or go to jail. No-one in my extended family has ever been in trouble with the law. We come from a family of professionals which include doctors, architects, television producers, accountants, neuroscientists, photographers,lawyers, economists etc. The list is endless. No one has ever dropped out of school or been in trouble with the law. Apart from the grief of losing my husband, helping my two younger children settle, my eldest son has driven me to depression, severe panic attacs and a near breakdown. Social workers, psychologists, teachers, outreach workers and many other professionals have commended me for everything I have tried to do to help my son since his fathers death but the system in this country is that until the child is willing to engage no-
Rudba - 13-Jul-14 @ 12:53 PM
I live in RSA and I am in the middle of a messy divorce ... I filed. he is financially a bully and control freak and I am sure he has a mental dissorder - a family member of his was hospitalized with a personality disorder and I nursed them back to health. My entire family reside in Britain and I am wanting to forgo a settlement so as to immigrate to the UK with my 3 children of his in order to be close to family ( a dying mother with cancer ) and my entire family who will offer me financial support and emotional support. can he stop me from immigrating ??
phaff - 4-Jul-14 @ 9:00 PM
Me and my husband are trying to be amicable (divorce)I want to take the children to Belfast, he said he was going to put a block on it, can anyone help or give me some advice to what my rights are??
suz40 - 4-Jul-14 @ 9:41 AM
I have 7 years old boy and I live in UK but his father went back to Latvia is there any chance to get child maintenance from him even if he is living in different countrie?
star - 30-May-14 @ 12:01 AM
i moved from the uk to spain with my partner and our two sons, in august we woke up to find him gone and heard nothing from him for 2 weeks then we got a call saying he was living in florida he had gone to meet a woman he met online. he stayed with her and applied for a marriage licence within 3 weeks of arriving in the usa, the day after the licence was issued he left her and went with another woman in the same area and married this woman within 3 weeks(obviously the need to marry someone was to obtain visa and green card) he has been out of status since november and i have only contact with him through email he will not give me a contact number or address or information as to if he is working legally or illegally. i have found an adress online ofr his wife but he will not verify if it is the correct oe he deniys having recived any post from me. my question is how do i claim child support from him. i have had to return to live with family in ireland and because i have been out of the country for over 4 years have to prove habitual residency i have no income and at teh moment i dont have a right to claim stae benefit , my ex partner and my sons are british citizens and i am irish citizen, can you please advuse me on how to persue child support.
sandy2662 - 16-Feb-14 @ 3:48 AM
My husband and I are legally separated.We have an 11 yr old boy and he lives with me full time.Because of the finally hardship I have suffered due to him draining me financially and not willing to work something out with the divorce I have taken a course to teach English abroad.I have looked at several countries taking in consideration schooling, cost of living etc., and I have found a place in the Red Sea Egypt.It is a very good place.I live in Nova Scotia and things are so expensive here and I am getting no help physically in any way from my ex-husband albeit he -pays child support and spousal support but living here is expensive and I have utilized all my savings to go to school, keep our house, divorce etc.There is a good chance I can do much better there I want to go and try for a year.Would the courts take in consideration the financial hardship I am having here and the chance I have at making a better living..
Lin - 18-Sep-13 @ 1:35 PM
I have just received a letter from a lawyer in South Africa on behalf ofa woman I was in a brief relationship with 13 years ago, claiming that there is a child of mine and that they want maintenance.
I have never recieved any formal request for maintenance and have doubt as to wether the child is mine.
I am Zimbabwean and living in the U.K.
Any advice will be greatly appreciated
rs - 10-Jul-13 @ 11:38 AM
My husband just found out he has a 16 year old child in England. There is no doubt the child is biologically his, will he have to pay back childsupport if the mother decides to legally pursue? Would he have to go to court in England if the biological mother pursues child support? She will be 17 in a month and we want to be prepared just in case.
byteme - 24-Jun-13 @ 9:14 PM
My 15 yr old son and myself are here in Canada on holiday with my future husband and his family. My son's father has not seen him for over four years, that has always been my son's choice after he witnessed a beating I took that my husband recieved 12 months probation for. As soon as we arrived he took his maintainence order back to court and I am now left with nothing from him for the upkeep of my son and his education. His reasons are that I recieved a small amount from the death of my mother, he stated I was marrying a wealthy man ( he is not wealthy) , that we intend to live in Canada. I return to the uk in just over a week, in time for my son to be back in school, we have not left the UK as we are awaiting my son's student visa then we will apply for me to live in Canada.
I have read up a little and surely it is about him maintaining his son? Marrying my partner has nothing to do with my ex paying for his own child. Surely it is his responsibility? I'm heading straight to a lawyer when I land back in the uk on 1st September to fight this.
Footnote....it is my ex that is the wealthy man, also controlling, I am asumming this is all part of the control issues he has ( leave and I will stop paying) and hope the judge sees this.
lulu - 22-Aug-12 @ 6:28 PM
I was born and brought up in australia so I am australian citizen, my daughter was also born in australia and is a australian citizen although her father was born in and is a british citizen. My daughter and myself moved to the UK to be with her dad and as a couple after a year of living in australia as a single parent and not receiving any support from her father for the first 18months. since then my daughter has been given a british passport and I am still in the process of getting my visa to stay (this has been lodged). I have now decide that the uk isn't best for myself and my daughter to be brought up in the uk and would like to move back to australia, but her dad my partner is not willing to move back yet (if ever). Where do I stand when it comes to leaving, will he be able to stop me moving back with my daughter even though that we are both australian citizens and are not even legal to be in the country as yet.
Emma - 22-Aug-12 @ 9:34 AM
Hmarshall90.There is no easy way of asking your sons father for permission about Cyprus. You are going to take his boys out of the country for a very long time. Its not like your just down the road or the next town/city, where he can call to see them if he needs to.You are going to have to meet him somewhere private, not in either homes and tell him your plans honestly. Expect him to get a little angry and upset (because this is a big thing for him to take in) and you must stay calm, put yourself in his position. Tell him of the positive things your children will get, from the life experience of better schooling, mixing with children from different countries, learning of new languages, seeing parts of the world lots of other children don't get to see, tell him about Skype. You need to make him see that this move is going to be an amazing thing for his sons and their future and not just about you taking them away from him.I should know my ex took my boy away to Belgium with her new husband (Army) and I was devastated about it. But my son has had some amazing opportunities over there in school and loved every minute of it.The Skype thing though won't last, 4 months before they start to be less frequent and the holidays home become too expensive also. (Well so yous seem to say). Good luck.Tone.
Tone - 15-Aug-12 @ 3:46 PM
i am wanting to move to marriage quarters in cyprus with my partner and my 2 year old son but im scared that my sons father would try and stop me. which is the best way of asking my child's father for permission? i am going to be fair to him and still give him contact through skype or phone calls and also come home every so often for my son to see his dad and he can stay with him for the duration of our stay in the uk. does this seem fair?
hmarshall90 - 6-Aug-12 @ 10:23 AM
I recently moved to dubai just under a year ago, but i originally lived in the Uk and am from there, i also still have my house in the UK. I'm 15, and now in my final year at school. My family always said we'd all come back one i'd finished my studies at school and was 16, but now my dad chooses otherwise and refuses to let me come back to the UK until i'm at least 18. I really want to move back to the UK and then continue going to college there, and perhaps get a part time job whilst i'll be 16/17, which i also cannot get in dubai. It is legal for me to move out in the UK at 16, and i know it would be a big step and i would have to do all this on my own, but i also have family and friends in the uk that will help and support me. I just wanted to know, is it fine for my dad to make me stay in dubai till i'm 18...would it be legal for me to move back to the uk and move out, and all the things i said above^? HELP thankyou x
Beckie - 28-Jul-12 @ 1:01 PM
I'm a Lebanese citizen I'v been married for 13 years now and i got 2kids a son 13 years old and a daughter 4 years old I have been treated so bad over the 13 years I supported my ex all my life and nothing in return lately I was hitn so bad and never was good to his own kids there is no human rights in my country and I don't have financially support here I work hard as I can but still can't pay for every thing life Is very hard here is there any country that can help and protect from the vailince of my ex me and my kids for a better life and get out of here
Manal - 27-Jul-12 @ 1:07 AM
I HAVE BEEN TOLD I HAVE TO PAY $79 A WEEK BY THE AUSTRILIAN CSA.IS THIS LEGALLY BINDING IN THIS COUNTRY.
cally - 11-Jul-12 @ 9:36 PM
There is no father who does not want to the child support. But when place too much percentage on one parent which you know that some women may plan it. When one parent is getting child benefit including some unreasonable percentage from father. That is why there is so much criminal because there is a cause on onethe money their mother is getting to feed them. Most of the criminal in UK are from single mothers. Then what is the benefit of the money they forcefully get from fathers.
koko - 1-Jul-12 @ 12:26 PM
I have been offered a job in germany and i am enquiring as to how i will stand with the csa ( i am tryingto arrange a private deal with ex but she wont do it if csa can still hit me with a deo) . this company is registered in germany but on further research i have found that a british holding company owns significant shares, will the csa still beable to hit me with a deo or assessment because of this?
smithy - 20-Jun-12 @ 2:01 PM
I live in Botswana with my 11 year old twins. I divorced my husband 4 years ago and the court ordered him in Botswana to pay maintenance which he has never paid. We are all British citizens. He disappeared and I have recently discovered he is living in London. How do I go about trying to get him to pay?
Flis - 18-Jun-12 @ 2:59 PM
I have a 3yr old son who i want to take to australia to live, where my brother lives and my parents and other sibling are also moving over, leaving me with no family here. My son has only recently started contact wih his dad because he is a recovering alcoholic aswell as his sister. can he stop me by taking me court and do you think i have a strong case as he has never been consistent and i am wanting to take my son abroad for a better life
claireo - 17-Jun-12 @ 10:15 PM
Im moving to the USA with my american with and my son from my previous marrage wants to move with me once he is 16 and completed his studies. Can my ex-wife stop him from doing this?
Pcsuper - 14-Jun-12 @ 10:50 AM
@ISM. Why would you not want to try and continue to support your children financially?
ChildSupportLaws - 19-Apr-12 @ 2:17 PM
I have moved to The USA with my American wife from the UK, I hold a US green card.
1 Do I still have to pay child support?
2 My children are 15 and 13
3 There is a court order in the UK from 12 years ago to pay an amount is this enforceable.
4 I am out of work at the mo does this make a difference.
ISM - 19-Apr-12 @ 12:10 AM
My wife wants to return to indonesia with our son,who is 3.5 yrs old. I believe under Indonesian law he can not become an indonesian citizen. he was born in the uk. if he should go to Indonesia, he would not get any of the benefits that he would enjoy inthe uk. The schools there are are much worse and there is no nhs service, as well as an increased chance of tropical illness. Are there any grounds for awarding custordy on human rights issues.i am a uk citizen
stevenmillwall - 11-Apr-12 @ 4:21 PM
We moved to Thailand as a family 5 years ago. Within 6 months of arriving my husband left me and our 2 daughters aged 7 and 11.He left us with no financial support whatsoever.Now he has been deported back to the UK from Thailand (overstay on his visa) and his back living in the UK.I remain in Thailand with 2 children.He still refuses to work (he hasn't worked for over 5 years now). I work full-time and provide for the children.A little something from him would be wonderful..Can he walk away without a care in the world and start over with a consideration for the support of his two biological childrenThank you for your help!